Sometimes i don't understand why people treat relationships so easily.

It bugs on me how people can treat their bf or gf as if they were trying clothes. If it's not compatible, i'll just throw it away and find another one.

So many hearts broken in the process. Some many be mended, but a scar would be etched.

Sigh....

Just got an sms from my friend that her bf asked for a break up. It's sudden since everything seemed fine on the surface. Of course i can't say much or judge anything as an outsider in the sense. But still, it numbs me when i put myself in her shoes...she might probably feel that the whole world has just crashed on her. Suddenly, so lost and directionless. All the plans, all the hopes and dreams with her loved one just vanished in an instant.

I don't know how to console, neither do i know how i could advice. All i can ask God for is to give me the right words to say to her.

I really thank God for my dearest. Really, a relationship is so much stronger with a common faith, with a common believe that God loves them. I thank God that we did not rush into a relationship back then, and i thank God that we always work things out and depended on Him for all struggles that we had and may have in the future. No struggle is impossible with our faith in Him. Some may say that relationships are fragile...some may doubt and think that me and dear won't last. But i beg to differ....really, being in a relationship hasn't been totally smooth sailing for us...but this love between us and God; like a three braided cord, grows with love and faith through each tide. A relationship isn't fragile with trust and love between each other and more importantly, with God. Ben and Gen is one good example of a christian couple that i really respect. :) I'm so very happy for their family that God has blessed them with and how they worship God each and every moment of their lives as one body.

Thank God for our honesty between me and dear. no matter how harsh or hurtful...honesty and communication is really really impt. God has given me such a wonderful blessing... i must never ever take it for granted. Cherish. This r/s with you baby, has really taught me what it means to sacrifice for love. Just like how Jesus sacrificed himself for love. To me, the basis of the bible lies on a simple but yet profound truth - love.

love you dear. always and always.

do you know what it really means to love?

God is the answer.